It has to be a shared adjustment. One in the marriage cannot manage it all. Sit down together and make a list of all household chores, bills, bath time, eating times and any other items that should be on the list to make a household run better. Be honest and not afraid to bring items to the table. As adults, go through the list and decide who can do what and when. Work as a team, a family, as one.
According to the Word, “Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.” 1 Cor 7:3-5
“But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim o adultery, and anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.” Matthew 5:32
“– Love “keeps no record of wrongs” 1 Corinthians 13:5. Learn to erase the wrong rather than file it away in your mental computer. Everything is by choice – choose to let it go. “Forgetting those things behind and reaching for those things a head...” Philipians 3:13-14
“For his anger endureth but a moment; in his favour is life: weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning.” Trusting and believing what you Heavenly Father will and can do, changes everything you will encounter in life. He is able!